How dou you let go of someone you Love?

I actually understand where she is coming from and how she might feel. And I also feel like you deserve to have someone who is able to give you the level of love and committment you are giving. But not every couple has an equal amount of love for each other, but that in itself is not a bad thing and doesn`t mean doom for the relationship. She may be holding on to old feelings of fear and betrayal she had experienced with another guy and is afraid to completely trust you and give you a definitive answer. But what you need to do is make sure you`re not smothering her and pressing her for an answer but instead give her a safe judgement free environment to oven up and express herself in a way she is able to do. Not everyone is able to express or say or do what we need them to do at that time we need them to do it. So let her breath, just love her and accept her as she is now but keep the lines of communication open. Or she could be saying she doesn`t know because its just too hard for her to say no to you. Or she could just need time to grow as a person. It sounds like your really young adults so its possible she needs more time to live life and doesn`t know how to say it. But whatever it is good luck and remember that there is a big world out there and someone will love you. Just believe in your self and do the best you can do.